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Designing a Wellness Vision That Honors Both Rest and Resistance

December 24, 20255 min read

If you're a busy professional or woman in leadership, designing a Wellness Vision isn’t about forcing a perfect lifestyle. First, it’s about creating a compassionate roadmap that respects your human need for rest and your leadership strength to rise when it matters.

On the other hand, in a world where you’re constantly navigating deadlines, decisions, people, and expectations, the idea of being perfectly balanced can feel unrealistic, even overwhelming.

That’s why this guide blends two truths:

You need and deserve rest.
You possess the capacity for powerful resistance, the kind that enables you to grow, adapt, and lead with purpose.

Research shows that leaders who integrate intentional rest into their routines are more productive, emotionally stable, and sustainably motivated (Harvard Business Review, 2022). So designing a Wellness Vision isn't a luxury; it’s a leadership strategy.

Let’s walk through how you can build a vision that supports both your softness and your strength.

Understanding Yourself: Designing a Wellness Vision Starts with Clarity

Designing a Wellness Vision: circular wellness wheel highlighting six pillars—rest, energy, boundaries, clarity, courage, and growth—for restoring balance and vitality.

Before you can begin designing a Wellness Vision, you need to understand what your body, mind, and spirit are truly asking for.

Ask yourself:

  • Where am I stretched thin?

  • Where am I avoiding rest?

  • Where am I resisting growth?

  • What do I need to feel whole and supported?

These questions aren’t about self-critique; they’re about self-awareness.

Why clarity matters

Studies reveal that people whose wellness goals align with their personal values are more likely to maintain them long term (American Psychological Association, 2023).
Clarity leads to consistency.

A wellness vision built without clarity becomes another task, in particular a vision rooted in values becomes a lifestyle.

Rest Rituals: Designing a Wellness Vision That Centers Ease

Once clarity is established, the first pillar of Designing a Wellness Vision is rest. Not lazy rest. Without guilty rest. No “rest after everything is done.”

But rest is a requirement, not a reward.

Here are restorative practices that support busy leaders:

1. The Quiet 10 Minutes

Sit in silence, eyes open or closed, for 10 minutes at the start or end of your day.
Specifically, this regulates your nervous system and reduces emotional fatigue.

2. Gentle Evening Closure

No screens for 20 minutes before bed.
Use this time for gentle stretching, journaling, or simply taking a few deep breaths.

3. Identify Your Rest Signals

These are not weaknesses.
They’re invitations.

Your signals may look like:

  • Shorter patience

  • Foggy thinking

  • Heavy eyelids during meetings

  • Feeling disconnected

Listening early prevents burnout later.

Resistance Practices: Designing a Wellness Vision That Builds Strength

Rest alone isn’t enough. You also need resistance, the kind that builds resilience, confidence, and internal strength.

Designing a Wellness Vision means identifying the practices that challenge you in healthy, sustainable ways.

Try integrating these:

1. One Brave Action Each Day

Send the email.
Set the boundary.
Say “No, not today.”
Start the project.
Ask for help.

Small, courageous actions build emotional muscle.

2. Weekly Personal Debrief

Ask yourself:

  • What drained me?

  • What energized me?

  • What needs adjusting?

This keeps you aligned with your own leadership style and energy.

3. Practice Supportive Self-Discipline

Not harsh discipline.
Not perfectionism.

Supportive discipline sounds like:

  • “I’ll commit to what’s realistic.”

  • “I’ll show up for myself gently.”

  • “I don’t have to push, I will practice.”

Resistance is not struggle.
It’s a steady effort in the direction of growth.

Blending the Two: Designing a Wellness Vision with Balance

Designing a Wellness Vision: blueprint graphic showing five wellness components—self-awareness, rest, resistance, micro-habits, and leadership—arranged on pastel steps.

The art of designing a Wellness Vision is learning when to rest and when to resist.
This takes self-trust, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence, the exact qualities that make a strong, grounded leader.

Here’s a simple framework:

Rest When…

  • You feel emotionally heavy

  • Your body feels tired

  • Your brain feels foggy

  • You’re overwhelmed

  • You’re doing tasks on autopilot

Resist When…

  • You’re holding back due to fear

  • You’re playing small

  • You’re avoiding discomfort

  • You’re losing sight of your values

  • You know you’re capable of more clarity or boundaries

Both rest and resistance are forms of wellness.
They simply support you in different ways.

Daily Habits That Support Designing a Wellness Vision

To make your vision sustainable, build micro-habits that fit your busy schedule:

  • 60-second breathing reset before major tasks

  • Five-minute morning stretching for blood flow

  • Set one small boundary each week

  • A nightly self-check-in

  • A 15-minute weekly nourishment moment (journaling, nature, quiet tea)

  • A courageous moment where you do one thing that feels expansive

These aren’t just habits, they’re anchors.

Your Wellness Vision Is Allowed to Evolve

The most powerful truth in Designing a Wellness Vision is that it doesn’t have to be rigid.

Your wellness can change.
Your needs can shift.
You can evolve.

Consequently, your vision can grow with you.

You deserve a wellness plan that:

  • Honors your humanity

  • Reflects your strength

  • Supports your leadership

  • Nourishes your nervous system

  • Gives you space to breathe

Designing a Wellness Vision is not about becoming a new woman; it’s about supporting the woman you already are. Don’t just commit to your well-being, thrive in it, with the tools and support you need to stay aligned. Join Hervival membership that helps women stay grounded, nourished, and spiritually supported, every step of the way.

References

Harvard Business Review Leinwand, P., Mani, M. M., & Sheppard, B. (2022, January). Reinventing your leadership team. Harvard Business Review. https://hbr.org/2022/01/reinventing-your-leadership-team

American Psychological Association American Psychological Association. (2023, January). 11 emerging trends for 2023. Monitor on Psychology. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2023/01/trends-report

National Institutes of Health National Institutes of Health. (2021, February 1). NIH networks to advance emotional well-being research. https://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/nih-networks-advance-emotional-well-being-research

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